Certain BAD HABITS should be avoided in PUBLIC if they lead to the following or other excesses:
- Bad for health
- Make people turn their eyes
- Are embarrassing or lead to embarrassing actions and decisions
- Bad example to kids
For some, even many, it may take a while to understand why certain habits are gross, especially when done in public. And depending on upbringing and culture, what may appear agreeable to you could be unacceptable to me.
Take smoking as an example. Whereas I view it as disrespectful when someone smokes next to me, you will probably not mind passive smoking! Your choice does not make you right though, because of undeniable scientific proof that second-hand smoke is bad for your health.
The list of bad habits we practice in public is endless. However, below are just some that I find gross and disrespectful.
1. Nose Picking!
This is one of those gross bad habits out there. Nose picking in public places is a disgusting habit to do just as it is to watch. Every time you stick your finger in the nose to soothe an itch or extract irritating mucus, you irritate everyone around you. You are also placing germs in your fingernails which will ultimately end up on your smartphone screen or other objects you touch!
Besides, your fingernails may contain germs which can lead to infection in the nasal walls.
Instead of your finger, use a handkerchief or some tissue, or lest people begin distrusting your hygiene.
2. Pimple Popping
And then there are the pimple popping fellows who happily squeeze young pimples and whiteheads. This they do oblivious of everyone else around them.
Please do it in privacy if you must, and clean yourself properly before showing up. Beware though, squeezing young pimples exposes the surrounding skin to possible infection.
3. Mucus Snorting
Yes, mucus is probably a good thing for your bodies but how you choose to deal with its excesses is in public is the problem. When at pain to clear the accumulation of phlegm in your nasal passages, use a tissue or hanky.
Do not snort (like a pig) and swallow your dirt when in the company of other people. It is gross and disrespectful.
If you must gurgle your phlegm, DUCK from your friends and colleagues and do it alone, HONORABLY!
4. Clumsy Table Manners
Well, different cultures and different food types may call for variations in how we eat, but excesses must be avoided in eating places. Ensure what you do on your table does not irritate others.
Doing the following while eating with other people is a little disrespectful:
Name them, the list is endless! It gets worse when you talk with a mouthful of food.
Control the excesses, which you should not do even at your home. Everyone will be happy.
In addition, do not order/serve more food than you can eat since there are many out there going without food.
Of course, you have the right to say what you want to say – it is a free world. Still, it is a bad habit to talk loudly on your phone in a manner that makes others uncomfortable.
Keep your conversations on and off the phone private, and always look around you to ensure you are not becoming a misfit.
Besides, allowing others to talk may give you room to see and appreciate people around you. Usually, people who shout do not allow others to talk.
This has been said over and over but many smokers still have no clue why they should stay away from the general public when smoking.
The health effects are known universally and there is no need to explain much. Just stop it!
7. Smartphone Excesses
The smartphone madness has swallowed us all but is no excuse for disrupting our lives in the manner it has. You and I use the phone beyond what is usually normal. It has helped to alienate us from family, relationship, and work obligations.
Excessive phone usein public:
- is bad for your health
- disrupts communication with friends
- may lead to accidents
When out with family and friends only use your phone if you have to, and secondly, do not WORSHIP it!
8. Excessive Alcohol
This one needs no introduction and better still, EXPLANATION! Excessive consumption of alcohol is a precursor to all kinds of mischief.
Always consume what your body is capable of containing, and not what contains your body, soul and mind!